begining of a new year..

Going through my old posts i suddenly realized that they sound rather immature..every time I start writing I decide to write something important, but it always ends up with a useless blabbering of an equally useless topic. well since I'm at the beginning of a new year let me try and make a difference here..

topic for today is ...(god this is tough)...why don't I just be myself and talk about things that have crossed my mind recently..back on the usual track..time for some happy memories of the year 2010. met a group of unique and wonderful individuals..made me feel like I belong somewhere after a long long time. well there's also the other place I've always belonged to..n that alone is more than enough for me,..but this meeting of strangers -who became -friends is quite nice too..they are not a replacement for my girls back home but an addition to my hopefully-life long friendships. I've heard that every person you meet in life is there for a reason. well even though my better sense says that I alone is responsible for my destiny-if there is such a thing, I do secretly think that everything happens in a predetermined way..I'm not saying A superior entity must have made it like that..but universe has its own plan for everything, doesn't it?

This might sound weird but I miss going to the university. I miss my girls. u girls rock:) I miss the rush of exams, last minute assignments, javi's tea, the studying..i miss being in class, getting the grades and the bitching;)

I and my good friend sumi and my better half became big fans of how i met your mother:D

love all the characters..robin, lily,marshal, ted, BARNEY!!! and oh the new show 'outsourced' despite the criticism is quite funny. yes, Indian men and women are stereotyped but c'mmon its funny. in every comedy there will be an injured party..these days you rarely see comedy without some party being offended. so suck it up is all we can do.

this is getting quite long..so may be it's time for a little break..so till next time..adios!

food ...

its 1.35 and i haven't had a proper meal yet. feeling quite out of touch with the whole blog writing, here I am typing away my thoughts on food. The picture is of a plate of thai fried rice. looks a lil chinese too doesn't it? well chinese doesnt even come close to this plate of heaven. Thai food has been a favorite of mine since the first time I tried it. All you people out there U havn't eatn nothin if u havnt tried thai:)
poor writing due to lack of meals..

back from the woods..hehe

back from the woods? well couldn't think of a better metaphor...finally found the good ole blog...
well so much has happened in the world since the last time i wrote in this..a new black president, an end to a terrorist group...well the reoson i decided to start writing again is because i suddenly got all these opinions about what's happening around the world n also wanted an outlet for my movie comments. the latter first...the past few months i think i watched enough movies to make it up to myself for all the times i couldn't do it..the picture is from a movie called malena..i jus loved it and also became a fan of this belluci lady. sadly there wasnt much about the salfaro guy on the internet...he is really good in the movie im telling you...mature...funny kid...well anyways its a sad movie..it also had some funny stuff in it..making a sad movie with funny stuff is a talent...another sad movie with funny elements would be Lolita at first glance i thought it would just be another cheap s-- movie but it turned out to be a good one. there were moderate scenes jus enough to convey the message which is commendable. well anyways i gotta tell that so many actors n actresses were added to my favourites list the past few months. well you already know one: monica belluci, then there's james mcavoy, robert de niro, beyonce, n oh daniel radcliffe, emma watson, n rupert grint ofcourse, then jennifer aniston, joey in friends, n many more...well i think i should take a lil break now n write about more important issues the next time as im kinda sleepy. jus one thing more...im really dissapointed in all the beautiful women who dnt think twice before posing for nude pics. ladies dnt sell your whole selves for money im telling ya..it aint worth it.
readers pls dnt think i dnt bother enough with using capitals. i jus cant be bothered..its too cumbersome.

another bad day?/stereo typing..

every morning as soon as i wake up, i hav this unfortunate gift of knowing wt kind of a day lies ahead...if i din hav enuf sleep the previous nyt for example.. im gna hav a bad day today...if i sleep too much also the same result.

today's post isnt gna be one of my best coz i aint in my best mood...lost the fone chip then baby's outta town..(sigh)

have u ever wondered y some people start disliking u at first glance itself..i hav often thought abt it...u mayb from the same race, same religion n same class , but despite all these , the other person myt decide to hate u...

this is wt i think happens. people stereo type u based on ur looks.for example some of my good friends hav told me that b4 they got to knw me they used to think that im an arrogant, rude, nerdy person.

well this is my point ..if u stereo type people like that ull miss the chance to meet n get to knw a lot of good people...

so never ever try to evaluate a person based on looks only..its hard i knw coz we r so used to doing that n many a times we may hav guessed ryt too.but, looks dnt really matter coz we always hav to deal with a person's qualities more than looks!

lookin good?

looking good ...does it conquer all? y do most of us spend so much money on looking good?my personal beleif which may sound stupid: looking ur best can make u happy, confident n a winner.but u shd b satisfied with ur ' best' too.

i spend half of my money on clothes.sometimes more than half..but y..mayb its a personality flow..but one which i welcome dearly even though my head doesnt approve of it..

its human nature to like n appreciate beautiful things..mayb thats y..or is it the inner beleif that everybody's gonna love us if we look good?or in other words is it the secret desire to be liked by people? reminds me of something i learnt in developemental psychology..(oh well i hav done some quite interesting subjects not really relevant to my field of study..well dats American education for u)well back to wt i learnt..i remember some psychologist saying that we all pass a certain stage in our childhoods when we follow a certain golden boy rule..ws it mr sigmond?not sure..dnt think so.. any how wt i think is some of us hu r so concerned abt the way we look r still following a certain adult version of the same golden boy rule..btw how sexist is it to call it golden boy? y not golden girl..lol..or golden child?

well anyway, back to the main topic n a lil advice from me..never stop caring about the way u look..i mean never stop trying to make urself beautiful inside n out..but dnt make it an obsession too..n always try to look ur best coz itll never go in vain.when u feel pretty n confident (here, i dnt mean u hav to look like aishwarya rai, but rather, accept ur looks n improve them by means of style, inner beauty, good diet, excersise, ryt amount of cosmetics etc)

ull feel the whole world is urs...

a lil some thing abt the picture now.it symbolizes the power of looking ur best!hehehe

happiness...

how do we keep ourselves happy???

wt do we need to keep ourselves happy??
is love alone enough..food?
music?friends? a combination or none of these?
well since its my blog ill tell u how i keep myself happy..im a person who appreciate small things in life n dat more than anything has helped me to keep myself happy...
laughter brings happiness..but when happiness is dare only, u can laugh at something..ryt?well a good sense of humor also helps..knowing that u arnt alone helps..knowing that u have people u can count on helps..knowing that good things are ahead of u can keep u happy...n more than anything else if u r content with life n its small surprises( to be content u shd be able to accept life n its ups n downs whole heartedly)then u can be a happy person..oh yes satisfaction with life, the fact that u are alive itself can bring u happiness... but only if u r willing...so wts d ultimate secret of happiness..i think its positive thinking..so friends beleive that wtever happens it happens for the good..n dnt worry abt ur past n future..live today n do something that will help ur tommorrow be a better one..

lazy!!!

i feel listless n lazy n disorganized n negative..can anybody help me distract myself a lil...wt wud i really like to do to distract myself???how about a movie..a bit of shopping that always ends up to be a mega shopping trip...a get together with friends...how about a chat with my baby...hus btw snoring away in that darling way he has..

wt can i do...as usual my pc is my only buddy at a time like this..it used to be books but now ive acquired a laziness that makes me select the internet over books..how sad...

now a totally different topic..the fairy

diva in the picture looks so cool doesnt she..thts y i decided to put her here even though she isnt relevant to the contents of this post..

wish i was her or she was my guardian angel..hehe